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I guess nobody read my blog but surprisingly some also give comments. thanx to that. It just means that you are concern about me, I guess so. Well… where did I stop. After primary school and going to some boarding school.

Why do I say that it was a disapointment when I got admitted to all boys school? I’m not saying that there’s nothing good about all boy school,but in my opinion who has undergone my whole 5 years of secondary school in one of the most famous all boy boarding school (SAS), I just have to say that it has brought me a lot of pain memories that I just wanna forget.

First, of course, just as I mention before, We will miss the period where girls undergoes rapid transformation. Be it physically and more important mentally. This is the time when a girl has difficulty in adapting to the situation but yet an interesting experience. I believe that at this point of time we should just let a boy and a girl have a normal relation between them. Some might say that it would be better to seperate them but I totally disagree with that. Teenage is the time when a kid will have their transition time into becoming a man or woman. This is when they will develop their mind and perceive thing as they see it happen in their surrounding. This developing mind will later turn them into being a good woman or good man. If we were to restrict the relation between them, when they sometimes in the future are exposed into this kind of relationship,  it might not turn very good. I must say that this thing might not be true to everybody who enter all boy school or all girl school, but I guess we would have better result if we were to have mix school. We can still produce excellent student like we have in all boy or girls school with the programme we develop and plus they will have the necessary knowledge they need to know in order for them to practise it in real life.

Whats making thing worse is the abnormal relation that one might have in the all boy or girl school. Some might say that things like this is not happening but only people who have been there knows. Sometimes it can leave a real pain memory and when you try to remove it from your mind you just cant. Again I’m not saying that everybody will turn into being gay or lesbian but the possibilities are there. Instead of doing something that has a bad possibilities why dont we just leave that and do things normally. No need to seperate the girls and the boys. just let them have the normal relation like they always have. Just normal relation, that’s all…. 

p/s: I dont think that everybody will agree with me but well its just my opinion, right. And about love is not that I’m not aware of things call soulmate or jodoh or anything like that but what I’m trying to bring here is the definition of love from what I’ve perceive from my experience. If you say love is only about jodoh or soulmate then I am totally disagree with you. We have so many type’s of love in this world and loving a woman you called soulmate is just a portion of what love can mean. And I guess loving a soulmate is far from what I called as a true love. Well, just wait till the end of the chapter. thats all…..