In searh for True Love -(4-last chapter)- “The Answer”
Anyway, I have always realized from long time ago that my true love, is not something that I can give to human. In my opinion if true love were to exist, I don’t think that it should be given to human. Allah S.W.T says in Surah Ali Imran ayat 14, 3:14
“Dijadikan indah pada (pandangan) manusia kecintaan kepada apa-apa yang diingini, iaitu: wanita-wanita, anak-anak, harta yang banyak dari jenis emas, perak, kuda pilihan, binatang-binatang ternak dan sawah lading. Itulah kesenangan hidup di dunia: dan di sisi Allah lah tempat kembali yang baik (syurga).
From what Allah says in the Holy Quran, there are several things that being highlighted here. First, it is known to us that Allah has created human to see the thing that they desired as something so beautiful or attractive that makes them love it. That is probably why there is proverb saying that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Different people desire different things.
As guidelines, the first thing being reminded is of course the attraction of woman. It is known from the early history of mankind, that woman is known to have a great impact to man. Although it is being fated that by Allah that Adam has eaten the restricted fruit, everyone knows that eve is the one that persuade Adam to eat those fruits. Woman can bring good things to man but also can bring great destruction.
To some people they really loved their children that they are willing to fulfill everything that their child wishes that in the end it will destroy their children. There are also some people interested in gathering all the wealth in this world. If they have 1 million, they want to have 100 million, if they have 100 million, they want to have 1 billion. For them money is everything. They love their money more than everything else.
What is love actually? Usually when we talk about love people always refers it to a relation between man and woman. Love defined by
Oxford is an intense feeling of deep affection which means that love can be defined as something that someone really likes. Then it is not a mistake to say that people who really like music, love music or people who really like money, love money.
If love were to be ranked according to someone liking, it should have been like below;
1) Allah S.W.T
2) Nabi Muhammad S.A.W
3) Parents/Husband/Wife
4) Others
This is why I strongly believed that if true love were to exist, Allah is the only one who deserved to have our true love. Kadang2 rasa pelik bila tgk ade org kat dlm tv ckp “ sampai hati ko menduakan aku”. Macam mana die leh cakap camtue. Setiap org harus ade rasa cinta pada Allah so camne die leh cakap tak menduakan. Dan yang sebenarnya cinta kita pada Allah yang tak boleh diduakan. Our love to Allah should be the greatest and we should not take others as the same. Sometimes I wonder how people can feel so down hearted that they want to kill themselves just because they broke up with their girlfriend. I wont deny that the feeling of frustration will always remain but its shouldn’t be that bad. This kind of thing would not have happen if they know who they should give their greatest love to. Just imagine how would your girlfriend do to you if you did not listen to them? Maybe both of you will fight over it and end up broke up. Now just imagine how many time have we did not listen to Allah’s order? Imagine how life would it be if Allah’s ignore you. Everything that we have now is what Allah has given to us. Your ear, eyes, legs, life, hands and everything. But Alhamdulillah, with His Rahmat and Rahim, He stills let us go on with our life as usual. However, how many of us realized this thing? How many of us really show our appreciation?
I’m not saying all these things because I am better than you all but just want to share what I have within me. We are orders by Him to keep reminding among us, giving advices. So here I am, giving what I thought would be beneficial for us. We are given such a wonderful brain and Allah has ask us to think. So think about this. That’s all.
March 5th, 2006 at 9:09 am
but the Question here my friend is,
HOW DO WE LOVE ALLAH WITH ALL OUR HEART??
have u tried before?? it seems really hard… it takes a lot of time to obtain this feeling and i think u know it…
this is a talk about Iman… where we know that iman fluctuates…
i do agree with u that with GREAT THINKING, we will come to realize that love actually belongs to Allah swt…
so let us all think with what He have given us….
wallahualam….
March 5th, 2006 at 9:17 am
the question here my friend is;
HOW DO WE LOVE ALLAH WITH ALL OUR HEART???
well i think we agree that this is the talk about Iman.. where we readily inform that our iman fluctuates and hard to maintain… i’m sure most of us tried before to keep their Iman at some high level but not quite find the way… and we should try better… insyaAllah, he will help us find our way… ameen..
i do agree with u that with GREAT THINKING we will come to realize that love actually belongs to ALLAH swt… and with His will too, we love and be loved…
so let us all think with what He have given us….
wallahualam…
March 13th, 2006 at 12:11 pm
love to Allah is a gift, a mercy from Allah, a rahmah. u can think as far as u are able to and u can work to your last breath but u can never achieve it that way.. unless He wants it in u.
beg for it.. make supplication.. n include me in the du’a bro!