Letting Go……
Saturday, March 17th, 2007Recently I was watching a chinese series title The Chinese Paladin. At first I thought it is a kung fu movie but in the end it is filled with all the love and romance things. Even in the end the evil force is actually being defeated by the strong power of a couple’s love. I was a bit dissapointed cause I was hoping that something like a fist and kick kind of scene. The ending is also kind of unfinished showing the hero is trapped in his own love world since his couple is already dead. How pathethic, I thought it is? Though some may say that the guy is true to his love but what the heck? The girl is already dead, he’s nowhere near hearing her breath again, why bother to be miserable for the cause? Anyway it did mention in the middle of the story that love can means letting go. I guess the guy fails to let go.
There are many things in this world that people refuse to let go. Money, power and woman, I believe belongs to those group. I guess we have to accept or instill in ourselves that everything in this world is not immortal except Allah S.W.T. If we are given the chance to experience it, we have to know that it is just our responsibility to take care of the chances given. It is hard to have such an ideal thinking but I guess that is how it is supposed to be thought of. Otherwise thats why we can see a lot of people killing each other for money and power. Love among human if not carefully taken care of, in a way can make people insane and lose rational.
Recently I was talking with my friend about how to get a girlfriend. The bottom line of our discussion is all about high risk and high return way kind of thing. Just like when you want to do business, when the uncertainty is high the possibility of getting higher profit is always there. If you want to go for hot chick, the chances are very minimal but once you get it, then what my friend used to say to the guy walking with a hot chick, "one lucky bastard". hahhaahha. But if you dont get one, you’ll feel the humiliation and definitely you’ll start living in a world of chaos. Though I guess it only valid for people that refuse to let go.
To let go, I guess, is definitely something that we need to be able to do or otherwise the thing that we look for will eat ourselves in and out. If something just happen to slip out from our hand, just remember that something better might await for us in the future. Who knows right? Rather than giving our hope for things that has left us, might as well we hope for something that is not yet in our hand but we actually have a chance of getting it, isn’t it?