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Today, as I was just getting back from buying Macdonald double cheese burger, I’m getting a call from some stranger. Good thing is she introduce herself nicely but suddenly when she started to talk about the thing she wanted to say, she sounded angrier and angrier. I was shocked when she told me that she knows about the thing I wrote yesterday (I initially thought that she was my big blog fan but when she sound mad, I rethink, yeahhh its not possible).

She told me that the thing is not true and she wanted me to delete the post. Among other things like dont be such a loser and dont write all the craps. Actually I want to reply, I wanted to talk about something but I need sometimes to think. And I guess it was lucky for her cause she’s the one started the conversation so I was still kind of shock. And whats more surprising she said I sounded like I was angry when the fact she’s already using her high pitch voice against me.

This thing that happen has made me wonder. Why does she go all the way to call me and ask me to delete the post? Well, its obvious because she is the one to tell my friend about the thing. Perhaps, she was saying like, "jangan bitau sape2 tau, secret" Well, kalo selalu tgk citer 70’s show, this is the part where they say, "burn!!!!!!!" I guess her intention was good. She just wanted to get back in good term with her friend (the girl I wrote about yesterday).

Anyway if she’s reading my blog again today, I just wanted to tell that the damage has been done. I cannot undone it. If there is some mistake in the writing I apologize because maybe I over exaggerated. But I did not miss the point I wanted to say. My point from the whole story is that, A girl is just as good as anybody can get her unless you’re at least engage with her, then only she’s yours. So even if you’re already with someone and not yet engage you should be careful and he should also be careful.

And again you must be questioning why did I write the story just now and not before this? Well, only when we have the experience  and good example and its become better if its the real thing, a writer can come out with the piece. I’ve always wanted to write about this thing and the idea comes about the right time and well, now I have the story. I’m not moaning cause I fail in the relationship but whats important is what I’ve learnt from it and I guess its not wrong to share it with other people be it her, the stranger, my friend, his girlfriend or anybody else who is reading my blog.

If you think that your view’s are not the same as mine, then by all means, by all means, please write it in your blog too. Maybe I can learn somethings from different views.

Akhir kata, thanks for reading my blog.

p/s: Rasa cam dah tak lalu nak makan. Rasa cam budak2 pulak sebab kena marah. Dah lama dah tak kena marah dengan perempuan nie. Last rasanye pun 3 tahun lepas.

I still remember one of the stephen chow movie I watch several years ago, if I’m not mistaken its title is ‘God of Gambler’s 3′. In the movie, one of the character said ‘I treasure friend’s more than woman’ while expressing that he is ready to let his woman go as long as stephen chow can help him to restore the country’s peace. I used to laugh back then and always saying it as some jokes as I dont believe that its the real thing.

Anyway, here’s the real thing I wanna tell. Just a few days ago, I know what really happen to me 3 years ago. If you read my blog in the earlier stage about "whats with woman" the third chapter, you’ll know what happens. To cut it short, back then I really thought that she was mad at me because I paste her dialogue in the mirc but actually she’s mad at me because of other deeper but silly thing. What surprise me is that she thought that I plan it all so that my friend whom she have a chat and whom turn out to be the one that she like too, can never be together. In other words, its just like she thought that I told my friends, ’she is mine and dont touch her’.

When I know thats what actually happen, I kind of laugh and a bit disapointed because after what I told her, talked to her, she couldnt guess what kind of person I am. For me, I may have treated the girl nicely because I like her but whether she likes me back or not I totally leave it to her. There’s really no point keeping a girl that doesnt like you. Maybe thats what makes my relationship fail cause I dont really introduce enough pushing/pushing factor but well, everybody has their own principle. So until at least the girl is engage with me, I dare not say that she is mine.  If she really likes my friend, I would willingly give way and the disappointment will always be there but I dare not see many more disapointment in the future, if I kept the relationship.

Truth be told, now I know what is the hikmah of me having to experience the things. Hence, we always have to believe that Allah has his own way of getting the best for us. Patient is certainly needed and when we know the real thing, we would gladly say "Alhamdulillah".

And to conclude it all, I guess its not really treasure friend’s more than woman but its more about playing fair in the process. That’s all.