Treasure Friend’s More Than Woman
I still remember one of the stephen chow movie I watch several years ago, if I’m not mistaken its title is ‘God of Gambler’s 3′. In the movie, one of the character said ‘I treasure friend’s more than woman’ while expressing that he is ready to let his woman go as long as stephen chow can help him to restore the country’s peace. I used to laugh back then and always saying it as some jokes as I dont believe that its the real thing.
Anyway, here’s the real thing I wanna tell. Just a few days ago, I know what really happen to me 3 years ago. If you read my blog in the earlier stage about "whats with woman" the third chapter, you’ll know what happens. To cut it short, back then I really thought that she was mad at me because I paste her dialogue in the mirc but actually she’s mad at me because of other deeper but silly thing. What surprise me is that she thought that I plan it all so that my friend whom she have a chat and whom turn out to be the one that she like too, can never be together. In other words, its just like she thought that I told my friends, ’she is mine and dont touch her’.
When I know thats what actually happen, I kind of laugh and a bit disapointed because after what I told her, talked to her, she couldnt guess what kind of person I am. For me, I may have treated the girl nicely because I like her but whether she likes me back or not I totally leave it to her. There’s really no point keeping a girl that doesnt like you. Maybe thats what makes my relationship fail cause I dont really introduce enough pushing/pushing factor but well, everybody has their own principle. So until at least the girl is engage with me, I dare not say that she is mine. If she really likes my friend, I would willingly give way and the disappointment will always be there but I dare not see many more disapointment in the future, if I kept the relationship.
Truth be told, now I know what is the hikmah of me having to experience the things. Hence, we always have to believe that Allah has his own way of getting the best for us. Patient is certainly needed and when we know the real thing, we would gladly say "Alhamdulillah".
And to conclude it all, I guess its not really treasure friend’s more than woman but its more about playing fair in the process. That’s all.
